I have never finished writing up the story of the kindy teacher and her husband. Life got busy and the journey on this one was intense. It was, as many stories, one that did not finish with the first, or the second encounter, but as with life with God, there was a journey to be had … for both the teacher and her husband … and me.
It was not long after I had attended the ICU the second time, and had the feedback that L was doing really well, that I dropped my son M off at kindy for his session and received a very aggressive response from the kindy teacher. L had suddenly gone backwards, and had started to experience arrhythmia (a disturbed heart rhythm). While some arrhythmias don’t affect your overall health, others are more serious, even life threatening … and L’s were apparently serious enough to require surgery and from memory a a pace maker to regulate his heart beat.
Now while I knew I was not responsible, I felt responsible. I barely made it back to the car before the tears started and by the time I was home I was a sobbing mess. I called a friend, an older wiser Christian, who encouraged me, said it was part of the battle, and that it would be ok … and after the phone call, even though I wanted to call another friend to wallow in my misery, I knew that God expected me to come to Him, to appeal to Him, to take my heart break to Him … so I did …
I spent time pouring out my heart. I spent some time praying. I spent time declaring. I spent time worshiping. And then I listened … and all I got was to go shopping for the kindy teacher, to give her a decent serve of my bolognaise sauce with some spaghetti pasta and to fill er cupboards with wholesome nourishing food … and a few treats. I knew she didn’t need me to give her Christian platitudes, or to even offer to pray again … she was angry with me and angry at God because her husband had taken a set back, she was rejecting me, and with me she was rejecting my God and I felt like a failure.
I did what I was told, feeling all the while helpless and frustrated … I felt like I had given them hope and I felt responsible for the let down … I felt responsible for “failing” them … and I knew the kindy teacher felt the same way … she was icy and angry!
I pulled myself together, bought the bits and pieces I felt to buy her and braced myself for the kindy pickup.
I quietly left the package with the teacher, explaining what was in the package of groceries for her, including the bolognaise sauce and spaghetti pasta, I got my son and left … telling her that I would continue to pray, and that I was sad there had been a set back.
The next time I saw her she gave me back my bags with a note, her demeanour completely changed … she said that what I had done was in her view the “most Christian thing anyone could ever do” … she had completely melted … through one act of kindness … through a bag of groceries and a cooked dinner … through an act … through a doing word … through His Love …
I was shocked, but relieved … and it had been God that had give me the solution … no trying to fix it in my own strength was going to work … instead I had to come to Him and listen … so that I could release His desire for her, so that I could hear what she needed … not what I wanted to do … which by this stage was to run!
She said no-one had ever shown her such kindness, and that she believed that what I had done was truly what it was to be a Christian (not that I agree since my father, who was at best agnostic often did acts of kindness for people but it’s what she thought one was) … and all I had done was to show her LOVE as a verb rather than say the word LOVE as a noun … I had shopped, given her some groceries and given her a meal in a challenging and scary time …
There is no way I could have known what an impact that one act would have … but God knew … and that one act of kindness seemed to open the door of her heart … and you will see, as the next chapter unfolds, that while He used me in Australia he was preparing another in South Africa … where He was lining up lives, situations and people all for the kindy teacher and her husband because …
God is Good!
I am so enjoying following this story! Thank you
Thank you for reading and your comment.
Thank you too for your response to my comment a couple of weeks back … it was encouraging.
Blessings, God is Good!
So encouraging! We think sometimes our ways are best but if we step back and ask God what He thinks is best then the outcomes are so much better than anything we could ever do!
Thanks for sharing!
Hi Staci. Thank you for reading and your encouragement. You are so right … stepping back and asking God allows for the miraculous to occur 🙂
Blessings, God is Good!
God is good indeed! You are right…..God wants us to take our issues to Him! Thanks for the reminder!